The Rocks

This is part of a journal I am keeping for Ben.
I wanted to make this one an ‘open entry’

Today Meryl and Richardt took you down to the Waterfront to go visit the Scratch Patch. It was on the cards for a few days and you had been looking forward to it. They took you and Jemma down and apparently both of you were just perfect for them.

But at the Scratch patch you get to bring home a little bag of rocks from the massive ‘patch’. You were very proud of them and liked to pack and repack them – you would also give out a rock or two to ’special people’ as a special gift.

Now, I was over at Senior Youth tonight, but Hayley told me that she saw you going into our bedroom talking to yourself just before your bath. She quietly followed you in. You were talking about how you wanted to give mummy and daddy some rocks. You counted out about 6 or so and put them under my pillow, carefully putting it back afterwards.

“This is for mummy and daddy” you told yourself quietly.

You never made a big deal of it, or even mentioned it to us at all.

When we found the stones, it was so beautiful, I actually took a picture or 2 of the whole set up. I was so overwhelmed by your thoughtfulness and other person centeredness. Overwhelmed, but I’m proud to say, not surprised. Make sure you never lose the joy you obviously get from looking out for the needs of others. And continue to do it with initiative and creativity. We won’t be the only ones who love you for it.

Philippians Ch 2:6-13

3Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, but in humility consider others better than yourselves. 4Each of you should look not only to your own interests, but also to the interests of others.

5Your attitude should be the same as that of Christ Jesus:

6Who, being in very nature[a] God, did not consider equality with God something to be grasped, 7but made himself nothing, taking the very nature[b

] of a servant, being made in human likeness.

8And being found in appearance as a man, he humbled himself and became obedient to death— even death on a cross!

9Therefore God exalted him to the highest place and gave him the name that is above every name, 10that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, in heaven and on earth and under the earth, 11and every tongue confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father.